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 Changing the images! (Page 3)
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Dawn D Member |
posted May 28, 1999 02:21 PM
WS Thanks! I know we are on the same side! The Building side! I hope some of the others can use this too! Dawn |
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sis Member |
posted May 30, 1999 09:02 AM
EverAfter -- I'm not "against" big boobs -- just hers  !!!WS -- See what a GREAT thing you started. I'm posting to send it back to the top! I was remembering how MISERABLE I was when I found H at OW's house. Then, I thought about how SHE felt when H was so upset that he basically didn't show up at work the next day and left her WONDERING all weekend (we got a TON of hangup calls), knowing we were celebrating our son's 3rd b-day. THEN, she got told on Monday that she needed to start looking for a new job. She pouted around and tried to get a rise out of H. He ignored her. She shouted out on Tuesday, "you really DON'T care, do you?" and cried all day Mon. and Tues. THEN, after he told me on Tuesday night they had really been having sex the whole time, he told her on Thursday that she needed to go NOW. She stormed out, ripped pictures off the wall, and quit!!!! I LOVE this image. |
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wasstubborn Member |
posted May 30, 1999 10:15 AM
sis I love your image too. The great thing about these images is that we have complete control over them!! I'm finding that the more I use them, the more distant the other images become. I'm getting back control of my mind!!! Isn't it great? I'm just sooooo glad it's helping so many other people! |
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TimJ Member |
posted May 30, 1999 10:20 AM
I have a couple of fresh images myself. Caught my wife with the other man doing it on his living room floor yesterday. They were so bold as to leave his window open. I found out the old f*** has a big fat belly. He stood in his door in his shorts telling me I had to leave as I stood on his front porch proclaiming what a f*** the good Dr. was for f****** my wife. Another good image I have is my wife told me I interrupted them in before he could get his rocks off. I know understand why the poor sap had such a sorry look on his face when he say me standing in his doorway. My wife also told me about a wart he has on his side that grossed her out. My image is of him as big old fat wart hog. The other image is him going to work on Monday tring to explain the message I left on his office answering machine. He's a phsycologist, so after I caught him and my wife doing it again I called his office and left a message with my name and phone number and asked if Dr. SoSo has a habit of screwing other mens wifes since he sure had a habit of screwing mine. I also asked if there was any kind of ethics involved for psycologist regarding having sex with other mens wifes. Felt a little guilty about this after words, but then remembered that I had sent the SOB a letter warning him to stay out of my life(wife) and I would stay out of his. He called me back all appologetic for what he had done, but warned me not to contact him anymore. What I realized is that I am still married to my wife and if he is stupid enought to keep having sex with her, I am going to stay in his life. I also relized that he had a big partscrewing my life up and making it difficult for me to work, so I figured he may as well experience some of what I have been going through with my work. Hope my venting isn't out of line, but having a really bad Memorial Day Weekend. |
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wasstubborn Member |
posted May 30, 1999 11:08 AM
Tim Use those images to make the OM the insignificant, weak, user that he is. I know you are going through a tough time right now. My thoughts are with you. BTW I've always wanted to phone OW's work and tell the other ladies to watch out because she sleeps with married men. No one there knows this and I'd love to do it. But I know she isn't worth it. I'd still enjoy it though!!!! |
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sis Member |
posted May 30, 1999 01:39 PM
ws -- I've come pretty close to doing that myself!!! ESPECIALLY since I have friends at her new office. BUT, I wouldn't want her knowing that I still even THINK about her. |
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TimJ Member |
posted May 30, 1999 02:11 PM
Yesterday afternoon I called the hospitol where my wife and the other man both work. I asked the receptionist that answered the phone if the other man(Dr.) was on the floor my wife worked on much. I had a need to know this and didn't trust my wife anymore. She told me he wasn't. I also told her that the Dr. was having an affair with my wife. Not sure where that will go, but I did it. Not sure it makes me feel any better. Revenge aint always sweet, but sometimes it is needed. I didn't do it to hurt anybody, but to try and understand and also let both of them now that their games hurt others. Sometimes reality is important to understand. |
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wasstubborn Member |
posted May 30, 1999 02:15 PM
TimJ Sometimes when they have to deal with the world knowing, the fantasy isn't so pretty anymore!! |
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trustntruth Member |
posted May 31, 1999 12:08 AM
Right On, TimJ! Did you tell the receptionist the Dr. is fat and warty too? I love it.... Connie |
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Saskia Member |
posted May 31, 1999 03:59 AM
WS, I LOVE this!!! When I asked my H how was the OW looks like, he told me that she is just so-so. So I pictured her in my mind that she must be a very bright and succesful young lady but now I could picture her with pimples & bad hair (I convinced my self that my long black hair is smooth and silky) lonely and miserables and needs my H to find her a date (well, the last one was my H excuse to comfort me) so I thought out loud : NO WONDER YOU CAN'T GET A DECENT DATE, YOU HAVE SUCH A BEHAVIOUR!!! Saskia [This message has been edited by Saskia (edited May 31, 1999).] |
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wasstubborn Member |
posted May 31, 1999 10:21 AM
Saskia It's nice to be able to control those images a little isn't it? If anybody else has any good suggestions please give them!!! |
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too sad Junior Member |
posted June 01, 1999 11:13 AM
wasstubborn Great idea!!! This has really helped me sooooo much. This also made me realize how much "power" I had given to the ow. I don't post to often, but I've follow your posts. Our stories are very similar, in both the situations and length of time. thanks again....really the boost I've needed!!! |
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wasstubborn Member |
posted June 01, 1999 02:21 PM
too sad I'm glad this gave you a boost. I'm having a bit of a crappy day today but it always cheers me up to know I helped someone!!! |
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Monique Member |
posted June 08, 1999 02:42 PM
Just wanted to say thank you for this post. My H even used it. See she was looking at some t-shirts in a store. She went in with my H to buy our children gifts from him from Nashville. My H said "I like this shirt" and bought it with two toys for our son. He put the shirt in his bag and was only thinking of me when he bought it. I know she must have been thinking he bought it for her and how pissed she must have been when she reliezed it was for his wife. That event actually lead to the end of the affair, because then she started playing MORE games with him. Trying to make him jealous with the other men at the conference. What a SLUT!!! I am really getting the hang of this.. I really really love this idea. Monique. Just wanted to bring this great idea up again! |
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trustntruth Member |
posted June 08, 1999 03:40 PM
Monique!!! You got it!! YES!!! Now he can't say he's worried about those images! You are gonna have the tools to replace those too! You two are going to have a fine marriage. Boy that ow was a real weirdo... I can see why your husband just loves you so much. What a cutie you are!!! Connie |
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