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sidney Member	posted November 03, 1999 10:43 AM Lark, Thank you. Yes, you are right. It is going to take changes on both sides. I guess I was starting to get really defensive when I kept hearing that I wasn't meeting H's needs. No, we haven't been to counseling. H's take on that is what's the point as long as he is involved with someone else? I agreed with him as why spend the time & money when both people are not fully committed? My H started on anti-dep medication yesterday. I think that maybe his depression made it virtually impossible for him to pursue employment. He is just too emotionally fragile right now to risk another rejection. So, for now, I am waiting for the medication to kick in. I wouldn't mind expending a lot of time and effort in Plan A, if I felt that he was making some changes too. And, in small ways, I have seen some positive changes in him. I suppose I just have to focus on the "baby steps" and keep trying to be patient. Oh, it's soooooo hard sometimes!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Chris (CA123) Member	posted November 03, 1999 10:44 AM That was in my first post on this thread. Surving An Affair does not mean having your spouse quit the affair AND return to the marriage. It is a book to help you get through the devastation an affair can cause. [This message has been edited by Chris (CA123) (edited November 03, 1999).]

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