posted October 03, 1999 08:26 PM         

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Male
age 56 wife 53
betrayed
3 adult children

A few months ago, shortly before our 32 wedding anniversary, W told me she had a 2 year affair 20 years ago. I was cluless at the time of the affair. Although it happened so long ago, I was just as devistated as all the other betrayed on this site. While it is old news to W, IT IS STILL VERY NEW TO ME!!!!!
The situation seem surreal(spelling?)to me. The details of why are unlike any other that I have seen. If anyone cares or is currious contact me at lovinghubby@hotmail.com and I can provide long winded details and what we have learned and our current status.
We love each other and will work it out. We have a lot to learn - MB has helped greatly. I have not posted much on this forum, but I read a lot and have learned a lot. Everything I post and my email is
shared with W.
Thanks to those who have helped me without you even knowing you gave me/us insights.
LH

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posted October 03, 1999 10:40 PM         

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Female
48
Betrayed
Married 14 hrs (1 son-22-previous marriage)
Husband had one overnight fling (supposedly not physical) with co-worker. Supposedly relationship is over but he still wants to separate to get his thoughts together. I'm moving out in Dec, probably won't be back.

[This message has been edited by xinlaw (edited October 03, 1999).]

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