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facing choices Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:00 PM
 
Okay, I know I can read each and every profile to get the information, but I was just looking for the short and sweet, bottom line on who we are here. I’m just curious about the ages, genders, betrayed or betrayer, and how long you were married when the affair started/was revealed/ended. So, lets just do a quick survey and sound off, okay? Hey, maybe Doc. H can use this information to help others somehow. __________________________________ Female -Age 31 -Betrayer -Married 8 years -Married 3 years when H cheated – I found out shortly after it started, it ended immediately. -Married 5 ½ years when I cheated, H found out 2 years later. Ended 6 months after I told H. IP: Logged |
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mkn Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:13 PM
O.K..... Male 39 years Betrayed Married 11 years My soon to be ex-W told me June of '96 that she was in love with a married co-worker, has not changed her mind all this time. We have lived in the same house the whole time also, one very hurt little boy. She wants the divorce I don't..... IP: Logged |
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Simone Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:18 PM
Female Age 48 Betrayed married 15 years H had affair for one yr. H says very strong emotional bond w/OW; denies sexual relationship w/OW but admits other physical stuff OW is coworker - 15 yrs younger than me OW is married H disclosed affair 5 months ago (after it was over he says) and after he said he wanted a divorce Not certain it is really over as they still work together IP: Logged |
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pondvj Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:18 PM
Hi. Female 31 years old. I am the betrayed. Married almost 6 years. We have been togther for 13. Affair started in March 99 and still going on. I found out in June. OW is married/ getting divorse. ------------------ [This message has been edited by pondvj (edited August 09, 1999).] IP: Logged |
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Holly Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:18 PM
Female -Age 27 -Betrayer -Married 2 years -"Fell in Love" with a married man I work with, went on a business trip and that's when everything came out in the open. I now live 800 miles away from him and am still married. I think about him every day and although I want him I don't know if I could leave my husband for him if that's what it came down to. IP: Logged |
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airheart Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:19 PM
For what it's worth, here's mine-- -Male --airheart IP: Logged |
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CarolG Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:31 PM
female 35 years seperated since January 99. Betrayer. Was in affair with co-worker MM/3kids 7 years. I told everyone in Dec 98. Including MM wife. I couln't handle it any more. I have 2 kids with husband & 2 kids with MM. ( Don't worry I'm not having anymore). Working on child support from MM. And working on being friend with Husband. IP: Logged |
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Janie Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:35 PM
Female 45 years old Betrayed Married 25 years Will be separating 8/20 A Little over a year ago started noticing changes in H's personality. I was treated as "second class". He hated me. Soon it came out he was "seeing an old friend". We've been working over a year, but it churns nowhere. Thus, separation. IP: Logged |
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rhooks4 Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:48 PM
Male Age 27 Betrayer Married nearly 6 years (seeing each other for nearly 11); fabulous 17 month old son Married 5 1/2 when I cheated Ended immediatley after wife found out [This message has been edited by rhooks4 (edited August 09, 1999).] IP: Logged |
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Nellie1 Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:53 PM
Female -Age 45 Betrayed Married 19 years, 6 kids H started disappearing for hours last fall, was inexplicably angry at me. Told me wanted a divorce in Feb, called from work the next evening to say wasn't coming home, he filed in April, immediately after discovery. OW is slightly older than I, divorced with kids. [This message has been edited by Nellie1 (edited August 09, 1999).] IP: Logged |
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trying2_4give Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:55 PM
29yrs. old Female Betrayed Married 1 year, Seperated, H wants divorce since i called cops to get him out of house! VERY HURT! IP: Logged |
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Dazed and Confused Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:56 PM
- Female - Age 44 - Betrayed (?) - Cohabited 2 years, married 13 years - H had at least overly intense, inappropriate friendship with boss/friend/co-worker (same person) starting Spring 1998 through June 1999 and maybe still, though less so. - H denied anything inappropriate or sexual. - OW got him interview for current job. She is single mom, 4 years younger than me. H and I are same age. - Started "nondisclosure Plan A 3/99 -- seems to be working. H does not go out very often anymore, never mentions OW, loving towards me, marriage seems better than ever. IP: Logged |
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lostva Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:58 PM
Female 43 Married 10 years Betrayed Talked to me about being interested in CHILD June 28, began dating her the next day. Left us 8/6. IP: Logged |
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zombie Member |
posted August 09, 1999 03:58 PM
Female-45 yrs old Betrayed Married 2 years, dated for 8 years Discovery 2 months ago H is repentant. Trying to work things out IP: Logged |
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IMCUTE2DAY Junior Member |
posted August 09, 1999 04:06 PM
age 26 married 5 yrs (totall) seperated 1 yr had relatioship with online women never met nothing sexuall. wife cant get over lies i told her says she doesnt love and doesnt think she ever will ------------------ Cute IP: Logged |
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