posted September 16, 1999 09:18 PM         

I think among the horrors we must live with, this is one of the worst. We have NO reason to believe a single word our spouses tell us. How and Why should we??? There is no logical reason. I look at her, and she sits with tears running down her face..and says.."But NOW I am telling the truth"...she told me for 5 years she was telling the truth...I was crazy..there was nothing going on....He was just her boss...they just had a "working" relationship..."Look at you..you are hurting our children..YOU are destroying our family!!".....God help her for this evil she has put on our entire family.

posted September 16, 1999 11:02 PM         

1) I thought you didn't love me any more

2) I didn't have any feelings for her (right-he just screws people he hasn't feelings for)

3) She flirted with me ( he forgot to mention he flirted back)

4 The OW best line was "I swear on my father's grave " (too bad she lied big time while swearing on that)

I wonder if we will ever get over this

Take care all

posted September 16, 1999 11:48 PM         

5. oh I dont talk to any women on the computer, you know I dont.

6.I couldnt have an affair, your too smart for that! ( I believed him)

7.well I tried to keep busy while you were
gone. (this is the weekend he spent with her!)

8.Thats not my writing, I swear!
( when he woke up seeing emails and letters all over the wall after I found out)

9.ok ok we were in bed together, but ,well,
we didnt do anything, well nothing that I
havent already done with you,well , you ,
you know you shouldnt do this to me while
we are on vacation,you just want to pick a fight now dont you? Im so sorry, I didnt think you'd ever find out.

posted September 17, 1999 12:25 AM         

“I don’t need to tell you EVERYWHERE I go. You’re not my Dad!”

posted September 18, 1999 08:26 AM         

---i AM in love with you, how can i prove it???? (while he was proving it to her!)

--- nothing i do is ever enough ( he was doing exactly that NOTHING with me and lots with her)

posted September 18, 1999 10:53 AM         

-the famous "we're just friends".

-sometimes I feel I do have a connection with OW, but nothing sexual has happened

-you're just jealous because she's young and attractive(btw, I'm not old; I'm 31)

-in the beginning: I can't believe you don't trust me; I would never question you and if I did I would believe you

-she's a good person to talk to

-we were only talking(after discovering that they spent 4 nights in a hotel together)

-her father beats the s*** out of her that's why I got the hotels for her. I visited her there but never spent the night(that's what he told his sister)

-the list can go on & on