posted June 01, 2000 09:50 AM            

Also denying my feelings. OW was visiting from Italy and needed a place to stay. He asked if she could stay with us. I said sure. Next thing you know, he was taking off the week to chauffeur her around. I told him that concerned me and I was uncomforatable about it. I got the same response, "You don't trust me." I told him "I don't trust situations." I was right. That weekend after the EA came the PA. Followed by two weeks of guilt on his part and the "I want a divorce" when I finally got into his e-mail and discovered that he loved her and confronted him.

posted June 01, 2000 06:53 PM              

* Starts talking like the teenage boy next door.

* Comes home wearing shirts you've never seen before.

* Accuses you of throwing that shirt away, then finds out you sent it to the cleaners.

* Doesn't want you to answer his new private "office" phone.

* Wants to buy his own underwear, whereas always wanted you to buy it before.

* Insists on doing his own laundry.

* Won't let you in the bathroom when he's taking a shower.

* Asks you for your copy of the key to his car.

* Auto Ins Co. calls and says husband wants to put you on separate policies.

* Ppl you havent seen in a while (his friends) start asking if you're still together. HUH?

* Ppl you haven't seen in a while ask if you're okay. HUH?

* Out of no where your H acts jealous over you.

* Encourages you to go on a out of town trip and before hated you being away.

* Calls you "Honey" and your normal pet name for 15 yrs has been Babe.

* You find long blonde hair on his car seats. H has dark short hair.

posted June 04, 2000 05:03 PM            

*Talks about how disappointed he is in life, his career, you, family income, the kids, etc.

*Keeps asking if you really love him, and looks skeptical when you say you do.