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 EN survey for us MB posters (Page 1)
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2sad4words Member |
posted March 15, 2000 03:07 PM
  
Reading Airheart's EN:Recreational Compansionship thread got me wondering. I thought it would be interesting to see people's top 5. Mine tend to vary and change places a little bit over time. I suspect this is true with others too. So there's nothing carved in stone here. Mostly a curiousity thing, but I hope to gain some insight into my W's list by seeing what some of the other ladies have on theirs. (This may be getting a little too personal, but I sure don't feel like I have much left to hide anymore  , and besides, it might be fun!)To save space and make for easy reading I suggest the following format: Your gender, Your situation #1, #2, #3, #4, #5 (use bold to indicate a need currently being met) I'll get it started.... Sexual Fulfillment, Affection, Honesty/Openness, Family Commitment, Domestic Support [This message has been edited by 2sad4words (edited March 15, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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sue Member |
posted March 15, 2000 03:12 PM
Ok, here goes.... Female, betrayed, now divorced. 1. Honesty ------------------ IP: Logged |
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purplemag Member |
posted March 15, 2000 03:20 PM
Here's mine... Female, betrayed, in recovery. 1. Honesty I've never "bolded" before and I can't get it to work, however ALL FIVE ARE BOLDED!!!! And, all of H's are being met as well. He found out after dday that our ENs were pretty much all the same! Only he had Affection and Conversation as his top 2! Go figure! Thanks for starting the thread! Should get interesting! --purplemag [This message has been edited by purplemag (edited March 16, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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az allison Member |
posted March 15, 2000 03:20 PM
allison female, ?betrayed, married 1) affection can I have one more..please please please allison IP: Logged |
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Keridwen7 Member |
posted March 15, 2000 03:24 PM
Hi, here's mine: female, betrayed, separated 1. Honesty and openness ------------------ Keridwen_7@yahoo.com IP: Logged |
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TruthSeeker Member |
posted March 15, 2000 03:28 PM
female, emotional betrayer 1. Honesty I wish I could half-bold. #1, #4, and #5 are partially met. (#5 more than the others) IP: Logged |
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chick's Member |
posted March 15, 2000 03:33 PM
OK, So, what if my computer doesn't have the ability to do BOLD?? Well, currently most of my needs are being met very well so just think of these all in bold, ok? 1. Honesty Anyhow, things are good even if I can't do a bold! ------------------ You won't see things until your ready to not be blind! IP: Logged |
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Mitzi Member |
posted March 15, 2000 04:05 PM
OK here goes: female, betrayed 1.Honesty IP: Logged |
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kam6318 Member |
posted March 15, 2000 04:59 PM
OK. Female, betrayed (EA), in recovery 1) affection IP: Logged |
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hanora Member |
posted March 15, 2000 06:55 PM
Ok, I can't bold either so all make stars female, betrayed, (odd EA) in recovery * 1. Honesty All needs are being met to some degree, where there is no star there is room for improvement. IP: Logged |
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Nellie1 Member |
posted March 15, 2000 08:23 PM
female, betrayed, separated 1. Honesty and openness IP: Logged |
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nobeswax Junior Member |
posted March 15, 2000 08:52 PM
female, betrayed, married, H still at home 1. Honesty I know this thing will do bold, but I can't figure it out. Oh, well...#1 is almost bold, the rest are bold. ------------------ I wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then. IP: Logged |
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Keosha Member |
posted March 15, 2000 09:26 PM
Female, betrayed (EA), H still in denial
2) conversation (never, he sees no need for this) 3) affection (sometimes a hug, once a month) 4) family commitment (none, his life is his job) 5) financial support (the only need he fills) I would # each of them 1. All 5 are equally important to me. Keo [This message has been edited by Keosha (edited March 15, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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keystone Member |
posted March 15, 2000 11:02 PM
Male Betrayed by W with EA with her "best friend's" H Still living with W and family, but considering separating -- tension mounting! Have abandoned Plan A since it seems pointless VERY UNHAPPY 1. HONESTY AND OPENNESS Right now, only #5 (Recreational) is being met, and only through our kids commitments. Aside from that, nothing is being met. Note: My w refuses to fill out an EN questionaire, so it's impossible for me to get any accurate measure as to my progress or failures. I bet I can guess, but it would be nice to know if my gut is accurate. --keystone IP: Logged |
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Butterfly Member |
posted March 16, 2000 02:18 AM
Female, Betrayed/betrayer(EA), Divorced 1. Honesty None are bold. He can't even manage to get the check in the bank on time. ------------------ The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. IP: Logged |
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