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Author Topic:   A Sex Question for the Ladies
Doug
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posted May 12, 2000 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doug     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, how about equal air time?

A sex question for the guys: Suppose your wife was unhappy with the amount of affection you show her. Now suppose she came to the MB forum, and all the guys gave her advice like "Give him all sorts of sexual favors, many times a day, everyday. And don't do it with the expectation of getting affection in return. Just make sure he always falls asleep satisfied, and maybe in a couple weeks, he warm up to you and show some affection. But if he thinks you're just doing it for affection, he'll be resentful."

OK, guys. In that situation, how long would you be resentful? Two seconds? Three?

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Committedhusb
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posted May 12, 2000 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Committedhusb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hear hear. I have always believed that this subject is treated in a most inequitable way. Dr. H is a lot more stern with W attitudes in HNHN than are the correspondents in this forum, in my opinion.

As the guys all said, shock us with the old groin grab sometime and see how well it works. You'd have slaves for life.

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Committedhusb
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posted May 12, 2000 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Committedhusb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't worry about the basis points- if you have a place that size now, you'll need higher interest to make up the tax write-off anyway......

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Emmiebear
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posted May 12, 2000 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emmiebear     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not ALL men, CH...

remember my husband!!!??

It's 6 weeks tomorrow having no sex with not even so much as a pass at me. If I grabbed his crotch, he'd probably just pretend it wasn't there.

Oh well. BTW, I finally told him that if he didn't want sex, but every 3-4 months, it was not okay with me, so he either had to choose one or the other. He went the non-sex route (of course). But you know what? I'm glad because I don't have to deal with it anymore.

Probably not the best way to handle it, but the only way for me to keep my sanity.

Anyway, just thought I'd update you. Hope things are going well with you.

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