Table of Contents
I Promise You
preparing for a marriage that will last a lifetime
1. A Lifetime of Love
Part 1 The Promise of Care
I Promise to Be Your Primary Source of Happiness -- to Meet Your Most Important Emotional Needs
2. What Is Care?
3. The Most Important Emotional Needs
4. Identifying and Meeting Important Emotional Needs
Part 2 The Promise of Protection
I Promise to Avoid Being the Source of Your Unhappiness -- to Avoid Love Busters
5. What Is Protection?
6. The Policy of Joint Agreement
7. Identifying and Overcoming Love Busters
Part 3 The Promise of Honesty
I Promise to Be Honest with You
8. What Is Honesty?
9. Understanding Dishonesty
Part 4 The Promise of Time
I Promise to Take Time to Give You My Undivided Attention
10. What Is Time?
11. Scheduling Time for Undivided Attention
12. For the Love of Your Life
Recreational Enjoyment Inventory
Emotional Needs Questionnaire
Agreement to Meet the Most Important Emotional Needs
Love Busters Questionnaire
Agreement to Overcome Love Busters
Personal History Questionnaire
Time for Undivided Attention Worksheet
Time for Undivided Attention Graph