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Five Steps to Romantic Love: A Workbook for Readers of His Needs, Her Needs and Love Busters

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Marriage can last a lifetime if couples apply two rules to their relationships: (1) Meet each other's most important emotional needs and (2) avoid hurting each other. Dr. Harley wrote the international best-seller, His Needs, Her Needs, to help couples learn to identify and meet each other's most important emotional needs. Then, he wrote Love Busters to help couples learn to avoid being the cause of each other's unhappiness.

Now, he has written Five Steps to Romantic Love to help couples apply the principles found in his first two books. The contracts, questionnaires, inventories and worksheets that Dr. Harley has used in his counseling practice are arranged in a logical sequence to help couples follow Dr. Harley's Five Steps:

  1. make a commitment to overcome marital conflicts,
  2. identify habits that cause unhappiness,
  3. learn to overcome those habits,
  4. identify the most important emotional needs, and
  5. learn to meet those needs.

Follow these Five Steps to Romantic Love and you'll be on the road to having a marriage that is passionate and free of conflict. It's well worth the effort.

Table of Contents

Step 1: Making a Commitment to Build Romantic Love

Agreement to Overcome Love Busters And Meet the Most Important Emotional Needs

Step 2: Identifying Love Busters

Analysis of His Love Busters Questionnaire
Analysis of Her Love Busters Questionnaire

Step 3: Overcoming Love Busters

Overcoming the First Love Buster: Angry Outbursts

Angry Outbursts Inventory
Strategy to Overcome Angry Outbursts
Angry Outbursts Worksheet

Overcoming the Second Love Buster: Disrespectful Judgements

Disrespectful Judgments Inventory
Strategy to Replace Disrespectful Judgments with Respectful Persuasion
Disrespectful Judgements Worksheet
Respectful Persuasion Worksheet

Overcoming the Third Love Buster: Annoying Behavior

Annoying Behavior Inventory: Part 1
Annoying Behavior Inventory: Part 2
Strategy to Overcome Annoying Behavior
Annoying Behavior Worksheet

Overcoming the Fourth Love Buster: Selfish Demands

Selfish Demands Inventory
Strategy to Replace Selfish Demands with Thoughtful Requests
Selfish Demands Worksheet
Thoughtful Requests Worksheet

Overcoming the Fifth Love Buster: Dishonesty

Dishonesty Inventory
Strategy to Overcome Dishonesty
Dishonesty Worksheet

Step 4: Identifying the Most Important Emotional Needs

Analysis of Her Emotional Needs Questionnaire
Analysis of His Emotional Needs Questionnaire

Step 5: Learning to Meet the Most Important Emotional Needs

Need of Affection

Affection Inventory
Strategy to Meet the Need of Affection
Affection Worksheet

Need of Sexual Fulfillment

Sexual Experience Inventory
Strategy to Discover the Four Stages of Sexual Experience
Sexual Experience Worksheet
Sexual Fulfillment Inventory
Strategy to Meet the Need of Sexual Fulfillment
Sexual Fulfillment Worksheet

Need of Conversation

Friends and Enemies of Good Conversation Inventory
Strategy to Meet the Need of Conversation
Friends and Enemies of Good Conversation Worksheet

Need of Recreational Companionship

Recreational Enjoyment Inventory
Strategy to Meet the Need of Recreational Companionship
Recreational Companionship Worksheet

Need of Financial Support

Financial Support Inventory: Needs and Wants Budget
Strategy to Meet the Need of Financial Support

Need of Domestic Support

Domestic Support Inventory
Strategy to Meet the Need of Domestic Support
Domestic Support Worksheet

Need of Family Commitment

Family Commitment Inventory
Strategy to Meet the Need of Family commitment
Family Commitment Worksheet
Quality Family Time Graph

Need of Admiration

Admiration Inventory
Strategy to Meet the Need of Admiration
Admiration Worksheet

Learning to Set Aside Time For Undivided Attention

Time for Undivided Attention Worksheet
Time for Undivided Attention Graph

How to Find a Good Marriage Counselor

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